2023年控制好你内心的心流演讲稿.docx

控制好你内心的心流演讲稿 eveensler：embraceyourinnergirlgoodmorning.i'mveryhappytobehereinindia.andi'vebeenthinkingalotaboutwhatihavelearnedovertheselastparticularly11yearswithv-dayand"thevaginamonologues，"travelingtheworld，essentiallymeetingwithwomenandgirlsacrosstheplanettostopviolenceagainstwomen. whatiwanttotalkabouttodayisisthisparticularcell，orgroupingofcells，thatisineachandeveryoneofus.andiwanttocallitthegirlcell.andit'sinmenaswellasinwomen.iwantyoutoimaginethatthisparticulargroupingofcellsiscentraltotheevolutionofourspeciesandthecontinuationofthehumanrace. andiwantyouimaginethatatsomepointinhistoryagroupofpowerfulpeopleinvestedinowningandcontrollingtheworldunderstoodthatthesuppressionofthisparticularcell，theoppressionofthesecells，thereinterpretationofthesecells，theunderminingofthesecells，gettingustobelieveintheweaknessofthesecellsandthecrushing，eradicating，destroying，reducingthesecells，basicallybegantheprocessofkillingoffthegirlcell，whichwas，bytheway，patriarchy. iwantyoutoimaginethatthegirlisachipinthehugemacrocosmofcollectiveconsciousness.anditisessentialtobalance，towisdom，andtoactuallythefutureofallofus.andtheniwantyoutoimaginethatthisgirlcelliscompassion，andit'sempathy，andit'spassionitself，andit'svulnerability，andit'sopennessandit'sintensityandit'sassociation，andit'srelationship，anditisintuitive. andthenlet'sthinkhowcompassioninformswisdom，andthatvulnerabilityisourgreateststrength，andthatemotionshaveinherentlogic，whichleadtoradical，appropriate，savingaction.andthenlet'srememberthatwe'vebeentaughttheexactoppositebythepowersthatbe，thatcompassioncloudsyourthinking，thatitgetsintheway，thatvulnerabilityisweakness，thatemotionsarenottobetrusted，andyou'renotsupposedtotakethingspersonally，whichisoneofmyfavorites. ithinkthewholeworldhasessentiallybeenbroughtupnottobeagirl.howdowebringupboys。whatdoesitmeantobeaboy。tobeaboyreallymeansnottobeagirl.tobeamanmeansnottobeagirl.tobeawomanmeansnottobeagirl.tobestrongmeansnottobeagirl.tobealeadermeansnottobeagirl.iactuallythinkthatbeingagirlissopowerfulthatwe'vehadtotraineveryonenottobethat.（laughter） andi'dalsoliketosaythattheironyofcourse，isthatdenyinggirl，suppressinggirl，suppressingemotion，refusingfeelinghasleadthushere.wherewehavenowcometoliveinaworldwherethemostextremeformsofviolencethemosthorrificpoverty，genocide，massrapes，thedestructionoftheearth，iscompletelyoutofcontrol.andbecausewehavesuppressedourgirlcells，andsuppressedourgirl-ship，wedonotfeelwhatisgoingon.so，wearenotbeingchargedwiththeadequateresponsetowhatishappening.iwanttotalkalittlebitaboutthedemocraticrepublicofcongo.forme，itwastheturningpointofmylife.ihavespentalotoftimethereinthelastthreeyears.ifeeluptothatpointihadseenalotintheworld，alotofviolence. iessentiallylivedintherapeminesoftheworldforthelast12years.butthedemocraticrepublicofcongoreallywastheturningpointinmysoul.iwentandispenttimeinaplacecalledbukavuinahospitalcalledthepanzihospital，withadoctorwhowasaclosetoasaintasanypersoni'veevermet.hisnameisdr.denismukwege.and，inthecongo，forthoseofyouwhodon'tknow，therehasbeenawarragingforthelast12years，awarthathaskillednearlysixmillionpeople.itisestimatedthatsomewherebetween300，000and500，000womenhavebeenrapedthere. whenispentmyfirstweeksatpanzihospitalisatwithwomenwhosatandlinedupeverydaytotellmetheirstories.andtheirstoriesweresohorrificandsomind-blowing，andsoontheothersideofhumanexistence，thattobeperfectlyhonestwithyou，iwasshattered.andiwilltellyouthatwhathappened，isthroughthatshattering，listeningtothestoriesofeight-year-oldgirlswhohadtheirinsideseviscerated，whohadgunsandbayonetsandthingsshovedinsidethemsotheyhadholes，literally，insidethemwheretheirpeeandpoopcameoutofthem. listeningtothestoryof80-year-oldwomenwhoweretiedtochainsandcircled，andwheregroupsofmenwouldcomeandrapethemperiodically，allinthenameofeconomicexploitationtostealthemineralssothewestcanhaveitandprofitfromthem.mymindwassoshattered. butwhathappenedformeisthatthatshatteringactuallyemboldenedmeinawayihaveneverbeenemboldened.thatshattering，thatopeningofmygirlcell，thatkindofmassivebreakthroughofmyheartallowedmetobecomemorecourageousandbraver，andactuallymorecleverthanihadbeeninthepastinmylife. andiwanttosaythatithinkthepowersthatbeknowthatempirebuildingisactuallythatfeelingsgetinthewayofempirebuilding.feelingsgetinthewayofthemassacquisitionoftheearth，andexcavatingtheearth，anddestroyingthings.iremember，forexamplewhenmyfather，whowasveryveryviolent，usedtobeatme.andhewouldactuallysay，whilehewasbeatingme，"don'tyoucry.don'tyoudarecry."becausemycryingsomehowexposedhisbrutalitytohim.andeveninthemomenthedidn'twanttoberemindedofwhathewasdoing. iknowthatwehavesystematicallyannihilatedthegirlcell.andiwanttosaywe'veannihilateditinmenaswellasinwomen.andithinkinsomewayswe'vebeenmuchharshertomenintheannihilationoftheirgirlcell.（applause）iseehowboyshavebeenbroughtup，andiseethisacrosstheplanet，tobetough，tobehardened，todistancethemselvesfromtheirtenderness，tonotcry.iactuallyrealizedonceinkosovo，when