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2023
一份
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philipzimbardo:thepsychologyoftimeiwanttosharewithyousomeideasaboutthesecretpoweroftime,inaveryshorttime.
video:allright,starttheclockplease.30secondsstudio.keepitquietplease.settledown.it'sabouttime.endsequence.takeone.15secondsstudio.2023,nine,eight,seven,six,five,four,three,two...
philipzimbardo。let'stuneintotheconversationoftheprincipalsinadam'stemptation."comeonadam,don'tbesowishy-washy.takeabite.""idid.""onebite,adam.don'tabandoneve.""idon'tknow,guys.idon'twanttogetintrouble.""okay.onebite.whatthehell。"(laughter)
lifeistemptation.it'sallaboutyielding,resisting,yes,no,now,later,impulsive,reflective,presentfocusandfuturefocus.promisedvirtuesfallpreytothepassionsofthemoment.
ofteenagegirlswhopledgedsexualabstinenceandvirginityuntilmarriage--thankyougeorgebush--themajority,60percent,yieldedtosexualtemptationswithinoneyear.andmostofthemdidsowithoutusingbirthcontrol.somuchforpromises.
nowletstemptfour-year-olds,givingthematreat.theycanhaveonemarshmallownow.butiftheywaituntiltheexperimentercomesback,theycanhavetwo.ofcourseitpays,ifyoulikemarshmallows,towait.whathappensistwo-thirdsofthekidsgiveintotemptation.theycannotwait.theothers,ofcourse,wait.theyresistthetemptation.theydelaythenowforlater.
waltermischel,mycolleagueatstanford,wentback14yearslater,totrytodiscoverwhatwasdifferentaboutthosekids.therewereenormousdifferencesbetweenkidswhoresistedandkidswhoyielded,inmanyways.thekidswhoresistedscored250pointshigheronthesat.that'senormous.that'slikeawholesetofdifferentiqpoints.theydidn'tgetinasmuchtrouble.theywerebetterstudents.theywereself-confidentanddetermined.andthekeyformetoday,thekeyforyou,is,theywerefuture-focusedratherthanpresent-focused.
sowhatistimeperspective。that'swhati'mgoingtotalkabouttoday.timeperspectiveisthestudyofhowindividuals,allofus,dividetheflowofyourhumanexperienceintotimezonesortimecategories.andyoudoitautomaticallyandnon-consciously.theyvarybetweencultures,betweennations,betweenindividuals,betweensocialclasses,betweeneducationlevels.andtheproblemisthattheycanbecomebiased,becauseyoulearntoover-usesomeofthemandunder-usetheothers.
whatdeterminesanydecisionyoumake。youmakeadecisiononwhichyou'regoingtobaseanaction.forsomepeopleit'sonlyaboutwhatisintheimmediatesituation,whatotherpeoplearedoingandwhatyou'refeeling.andthosepeople,whentheymaketheirdecisionsinthatformat--we'regoingtocallthem"present-oriented,"becausetheirfocusiswhatisnow.
forothers,thepresentisirrelevant.it'salwaysabout"whatisthissituationlikethati've
experiencedinthepast。"sothattheirdecisionsarebasedonpastmemories.andwe'regoingtocallthosepeople"past-oriented,"becausetheyfocusonwhatwas.
forothersit'snotthepast,it'snotthepresent,it'sonlyaboutthefuture.theirfocusisalwaysaboutanticipatedconsequences.cost-benefitanalysis.we'regoingtocallthem"future-oriented."theirfocusisonwhatwillbe.
so,timeparadox,iwanttoargue,theparadoxoftimeperspective,issomethingthatinfluenceseverydecisionyoumake,you'retotallyunawareof.namely,theextenttowhichyouhaveoneofthesebiasedtimeperspectives.wellthereisactuallysixofthem.therearetwowaystobe
present-oriented.thereistwowaystobepast-oriented,twowaystobefuture.youcanfocusonpast-positive,orpast-negative.youcanbepresent-hedonistic,namelyyoufocusonthejoysoflife,orpresent-fatalist--itdoesn'tmatter,yourlifeiscontrolled.youcanbefuture-oriented,settinggoals.oryoucanbetranscendentalfuture:namely,lifebeginsafterdeath.developingthementalflexibilitytoshifttimeperspectivesfluidlydependingonthedemandsofthesituation,that'swhatyou'vegottolearntodo.
so,veryquickly,whatistheoptimaltimeprofile。highonpast-positive.moderatelyhighon
future.andmoderateonpresent-hedonism.andalwayslowonpast-negativeandpresent-fatalism.sotheoptimaltemporalmixiswhatyougetfromthepast--past-positivegivesyouroots.youconnectyourfamily,identityandyourself.whatyougetfromthefutureiswingstosoartonewdestinations,newchallenges.whatyougetfromthepresenthedonismistheenergy,theenergytoexploreyourself,places,people,sensuality.
anytimeperspectiveinexcesshasmorenegativesthanpositives.whatdofuturessacrificeforsuccess。theysacrificefamilytime.theysacrificefriendtime.theysacrificefuntime.theysacrificepersonalindulgence.theysacrificehobbies.andtheysacrificesleep.soitaffectstheirhealth.andtheyliveforwork,achievementandcontrol.i'msurethatresonateswithsomeofthetedsters.(laughter)
anditresonatedforme.igrewupasapoorkidinthesouthbronxghetto,asicilianfamily--everyonelivedinthepastandpresent.i'mhereasafuture-orientedpersonwhowentoverthetop,whodidallthesesacrificesbecauseteachersintervened,andmademefutureoriented.toldmedon'teatthatmarshmallow,becauseifyouwaityou'regoingtogettwoofthem,untililearnedtobalanceout.i'veaddedpresent-hedonism,i'veaddedafocusonthepast-positive,so,at76yearsold,iammoreenergeticthanever,moreproductive,andi'mhappierthanihaveeverbeen.
ijustwanttosaythatweareapplyingthistomanyworldproblems:changingthedrop-outratesofschoolkids,combatingaddic